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Your Biggest Asset

Yesterday, I shared a video about the importance of time. It went on to explain that our time is in fact our biggest asset. When looking at professional soccer, basketball, or baseball players, we lose sight that they had, and still do have the same amount of minutes in a week as anyone else to spend working on a craft. They are only in that position because of how they spent their time previously. The beauty is that no one person in this world is gifted with extra time, but the difference comes in how you spend each minute of your day. We all have the same capacity for success, though it only comes when value is created by putting in the work now to see the rewards later. So do you spend your time “chilling”, or do you spend it working towards some goal?

Spend your time according to its value in the same manner you would spend your money. I know this may be an unpopular stance, but I don’t buy Jordan’s because their value does not match the price tag in my eyes. They look nice sure, and if someone gave them to me you’d see me in them the same day, but I won’t spend that amount of money for something that doesn’t return the same value. That’s just bad business.

The next time you find yourself getting caught up in facebook, twitter, or even watching TV, ask yourself if you really value that more than doing something to reach your goals.


You Need it to Live

This morning I woke up feeling unbelievably tired and groggy. As you know from yesterday’s post, I go to the gym in the morning before work. In the past, if I felt tired whatsoever, I knew it was a sign that today’s gym session just wasn’t meant to be. I figured it would be a bad workout anyway, and not worth my time. Thankfully my feelings have changed, and not to mention I wanted to keep my recent streak of going to the gym alive. Today at least, was a success. I was able to pull myself out of bed an make it to the gym in a reasonable amount of time.

The part of this story I want to focus on though, is why I was tired and groggy. Last night, I went to my friend Buscemi’s apartment to fix up a song we were working on (It’s going to be a hit record by the way). One of the choruses got out of wack, so he wanted me to rearrange it to be in time with the rest of the song. I figured, since I was going over anyway, I might as well make a night of it and bring something to drink; some adult beverages if you will.

The night went well, a little too well in fact. We fixed everything and people were really feeling the song, but I also ended up drinking more than I probably should have, and got dehydrated. This brought up another unsuspecting challenge I have to talk about, but I’ll save that for another day. I tried drinking some water before I went to bed, but the damage was already done.

Water is needed to live of course, but water is also needed to perform optimally. I woke up in the morning and did what I had to do, but as you can imagine, it definitely wasn’t the best it could have been done. I found that just like I needed water to make my morning easier, I also needed to get my “mind right” in order to make my journey to fulfill a dream easier. If having the right mindset isn’t your issue, don’t be afraid to examine what else you might be missing. Find what might make your life easier. Find your “water”.

Who Are You?

Music Producer Extraordinaire

Last week I caught up with someone I haven’t seen at the gym in forever. In fact, the last time I saw him I was still going to the gym in the afternoons. I’ve since changed my routine to go before work, but it’s always refreshing when one of them decides to transcend their after work gym time habits, and see what it’s like on the other side. We are few, but we are strong…Still, then and now, we were, and are, only acquaintances; the type you nod your head to in order to show familiarity from that one time you might have spoken to each other, for a total of 5 mins, months or years ago.

Anyway, we again struck up a conversation about a new training class he was taking. He referred to it as a beastly workout that isn’t for the faint of heart, providing the caveat that just as anything else in life, you do get out what you put in. For myself, I am still trying to get “cut up” for the summer, so I was down for anything that would help. He then asked the customary, “What’s your Facebook? I’ll add you and let you know when the next demo is.” I proceeded to let him know my name, even making sure he added the right person. You can never be too safe, I mean who knows what trouble my doppelganger could be getting into.

Once the request was sent, and not a second later, he then asked, “Oh you’re a music producer? Now I have two professions listed on my Facebook profile. The first job is of my current 9-5, and the other is as a music producer at Just Dreamz Entertainment. I must admit, it was a little jarring to hear this said aloud. The way it hit my ears just felt so unnatural and naughty, but yet so right. I realized then, that if this is something I truly want to accomplish in my life, I have to believe it my damn self before I even can fathom others to see me that way as well.

After giving him full disclosure that music was just a “hobby” for now, I made sure to say it’s the plan to do it full time in the future. I don’t when when in the future it will happen. I also don’t know how it will happen. I do know that if I confidently believe I am a music producer already, I’ve already made it half way there.

Why Fly When You Can Ride In Style

Even Birds Know How to Use UBER

Today I saw something that made me go WTF…literally. While I was driving on the highway this morning, I saw the most random thing. On the car next to me, going 60 – 65 MPH, was a bird perched on top of its back bumper. It was a tiny brown bird, probably unassuming in any other situation. I would assume I in fact have probably seen this bird Deal with itbefore, never knowing how special it truly was. As I drove closer. it turned its head toward me for a slip second. I could only imagine this was the bird’s way to make sure I knew it was real. It wanted to make sure I told of it’s travels, only adding to its legend. As I continued to look on in amazement, I could only picture the gif of sunglasses covering the bird’s eyes saying, “Deal With It.” Unfortunately, right as I had the idea to capture this once in a lifetime moment with my phone, the car whizzed past, forever out of my sight, and into that of another unsuspecting viewer.

Sometimes, even birds need to catch a ride. If you are trying to accomplish a goal, do some research to see who else has made it in the field you are pursuing. Use them as guides and mentors so that you are not trying to duplicate work that is already out there for consumption. [bctt tweet=”Don’t try and expend energy flying when there is a perfectly good ride in front of you.”]

When the Lights Are Brightest

Will You F*** It Up?

I was watching Draft Academy this morning and wondered this very question. Shane Ray, a projected top 10 pick at the time, was cited with DUI and marijuana possession charges the week leading up to the draft. Conventional wisdom would say he has to be the dumbest person ever. While I somewhat agree, I do make the distinction that this was a dumb decision, not necessarily the act of a dumb person. I must admit though, I don’t know the specifics of the incident or the circumstances, but I do know that when there are millions on the line, it’s probably better to not put yourself in those situations…but hey, that’s just me.

Even though it could have been easy to write this kid off, the next scenes proved to be the more important part of the story. Chris Carter, a hall of famer with his own well documented off the field issues, came to see him in the moments leading up to the draft. He reminded Shane that once he forgave himself, it was now time to become great. Once he was able to move past this mistake, it was now time to show everyone the true potential he had.

Sometimes it’s easy to write off someone, even yourself, when they or you make a mistake. Even if not one single person believes your potential, you believe in your potential. Mistakes come and go. Make a decision to learn and move forward.

Be Careful What You Wish For

You Just Might Get It

It was the bottom of the 4th inning. I was playing right center for Acton’s company softball team. A few weeks ago my roommate asked if I wanted to join the team. As some background, I had previously played outfield in my high school baseball career, and was itching to get back into the sport. CRACK! The ball was hit past the 2nd baseman, and just like many times before, I charged the ball to keep the runners from advancing. Bounce 1…I timed it perfectly…Bounce 2….Ouch!!

The ball hit me square in the mouth. I laid there in shock for a moment, gazing at the sky. It was a pretty day I must admit. Suddenly, I remembered that the play was still going on. As I finally threw the ball to the second baseman I thought, “I can’t believe that just happened,”

Right before the game, I was talking to my fiancee saying I wanted desperately for them to put me in the infield, specifically at shortstop.

When I was about 13, I played in a baseball tournament for my rec travel team. It was right before I supposed to start high school, although, unlike in high school, I played more infield positions at that time. I was one of the biggest kids back then, so you guessed it, I spent most of my time at first. On this particular day we were short staffed and the coach wanted me to play some shortstop. At the time, I may have played shortstop once in my life, and probably not in a game situation. Anyway, the game goes on and CRACK! The ball was hit to me. It was finally my time to shine. I charged the ball. Bounce 1…I timed it perfectly…Bounce 2…OUCH!!

The ball went straight from the lip of the grass, to my lips and mouth. After the initial shock, I found the ball and threw it to the pitcher in order to end the play. The pain wasn’t too bad at the time. I’ve been hit with a ball in my head, legs, butt, and countless other places for that matter. Unfortunately, this time turned out to be a little different. My teeth kind of hurt. I ran my tongue around the inside of my teeth and…”Hold up, where’s the rest of my front tooth??!?!?”

After I told my fiancee that I wanted to play shortstop, I went on to explain the reasons you know now. I could finally get my redemption. I had never played shortstop since I knocked my tooth out, and it was now time to bury those demons. Well, so much for that.

Be careful what you wish for. I believe putting “something” out into the world gives that “something” the power to happen. Chances are, if you are fixated on something positive or negative, that “something” will occur. That fixation leads our actions in that direction. There are countless people out there that when they were younger told their parents they wanted to be a certain profession, and surprisingly ended up doing it.

Now, I’m not a superstitious person, but as I sit here with a cut, swollen lip, I can’t help but think, “Maybe I should have kept my mouth shut.”

Miracles vs. Medicine | Help is On the Way

Miracles vs. Medicine

Faith vs. Science

“I’m just bout that action boss” – Marshawn Lynch

I’ve been told, “No matter what you do in life, you’re going to experience pain and suffering.” [bctt tweet=”Well, I guess I better take ALL the help I can get.”]

It doesn’t matter what you believe, the truth is that help comes in all different forms. Use them to your advantage. Don’t sit idle when a plan for action is right in front of your face. Have faith that God gave you the power to change your life, or have faith that you inherit the power to change your life. Either way, help is there, make a decision to take it.